Sometimes I feel as if there’s a huge disconnect between people when they’re talking about belief in God or a lack thereof. A lot of times I’ll get in discussions with people and when they hear that I’m an atheist, they immediately want to make the topic about Christian morality. They make assertions about my lack of moral standard, then often state some version of, “Without a god, everyone would just run around crazy, doing anything they want.” Eat, drink, and be merry, so to speak. Or they’ll say something about how comforting their faith in Jesus is, or how it’s better to be safe than sorry and simply pray to God even if He might not be real, or that faith in Jesus helps mankind.
All the standard arguments, all of which are either flawed or bankrupt. But more to the point, they completely miss the issue. I try to operate on reality, not on hopes and dreams. I might wish with all my heart that my loved ones weren’t going to die one day, for example. Wishing may be nice, and hope gives us strength, but neither one is going to change reality.
God either exists or He doesn’t. Our feelings about the matter don’t make a bit of difference. I’m an atheist because I think the evidence is lacking. That’s it, there’s nothing more to it. It doesn’t matter whether this reality fits my hopes and drams, whether it’s morally a good thing, or whether my fear of death might be alleviated. I’m not going to pick up a belief – especially one this important – because I want it to be true.
I find the idea of intelligent alien life in our galaxy fascinating. It would be great if we could discover something else out there. But there’s no evidence yet, so I’m not going to make a statement of belief.
This is what it all comes down to; this is where it should all begin. Before the Christians start in with their ideas of morality, whether religion is good for mankind, whether it gives people hope, and so on, they need to address the primary issue: Where’s the evidence for it? Even if we find that faith in Jesus is the most wonderful, satisfying, life-affirming emotion known to man, that’s imply an argument for why you should have faith. It says absolutely nothing about whether Jesus was the son of God.
In other words, I don’t really care if your belief is useful. I want to know whether it’s true. Explaining to me all the myriad of ways that it’s useful doesn’t get us any closer to the truth.